Last updated March 28th, 2021
When your cat goes around giving everyone in his path a powder puff for no reason, it doesn’t necessarily mean he’s aggressive. When your one cat is bullying another cat things can quickly escalate into an unwanted behavioral problem. There’s one in every multi-cat household and through no fault of his own, he’s labeled the “bully cat.”
When we add more cats to an already established group, it causes a shift in the cat hierarchy. The shift may be as obvious as a stare down and a brawl with fur flying or it may be very subtle, such as blocking the pathway to a litter box. The resident high ranking cat may or may not relinquish his title as Top Cat … at first, or maybe never.
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But that doesn’t stop the cat with ambitions to keep trying by asserting his dominance over the rest of the clan through undesirable behaviors. This could include anything from relentlessly ambushing and chasing a timid, docile cat, guarding litter boxes, taking ownership of toys, games, sun puddles and refusing to timeshare.Right now in your multi-cat home, there is most likely a daily episode of Game of Thrones at play. Is there a cat in your home set on ruling the 7 cat kingdoms?Click To Tweet
The last thing you want to do is punish the so-called bully cat with water bottle spraying, yelling or throwing things at him. It’s not going to solve his bad attitude and may cause him to fear you and lead to stress. I compare these tactics to just taking pills to mask the symptoms of illness, instead of treating the cause. These high energy cats have a strong prey drive and they love nothing more than to chase anything that moves like prey! The key is providing him with tasks that will fulfill his desire to hunt and creating an enriching, changing environment that he cannot resist.
But, is your cat really a bully or is he just a high energy cat?
In many cases the latter is true. Our resident rescue cat, Baggy, is definitely more high energy than a bully. He’s not aggressive at all, a complete love bug to the humans, but has a high prey drive with lots of energy to expend. He claimed this title because he enjoys whacking the other cats with his paws like he’s in the octagon in a UFC match. During these slapping sessions, he never uses his claws and is easily distracted while engaging in these ‘games.’ Because to him, it is a game, and with that in mind, we know that we can easily redirect this negative behavior into something positive.
Throw something crinkly across the kitchen floor, and you’ve got him! Take out the fishing rod toy, now we’re talking! Instantly he loses interest in taunting the victim cat. We know that to keep the harmony we really have to provide an ultra stimulating environment for this high energy cat.
Always pay attention to how your cat is showing aggression. Displaying overtly aggressive and harmful behavior such as biting or drawing blood due to full-blown fights, first and foremost, warrants a vet visit to rule out any underlying medical issues. Cats are masters at being stoic creatures and they hide pain well. The only outlet they have to express pain is sometimes through redirected aggression – taking it out on another cat that happens to walk by.
7 Things you can do to provide stimulation for your high energy cat
1. Interactive pre-supper time play
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Interactive playtime is at the top of the list of things to engage your high energy cat. Coming home after work, one could easily give in to the whims of wailing cats wanting to be fed first thing. Now is the time to ignore their persuasive “acatpella” and get them moving. Spend about 15 minutes playing with your cats to release all that pent-up energy. Remember, you’re the one who is tired, not your high energy cat. He’s been sleeping all day. Now is the time to get him moving until you see he’s really had enough and allow him the thrill and excitement of the ‘catch’ to mimic a successful ‘hunt.’ My cats’ favorites are feather teaser toys such as DaBird or any kind of feather attached to a rod. Don’t feel guilty if you’ve skipped the gym that night because running up and down the stairs with toys in hand and cats in tow not only gets them pumped but is great for fitting in a mini cardio workout yourself!
NOTE: There are many imitations of the cat toy called Da Bird. The real deal is hand made in the US with quality materials tough enough to withstand some rough cat batting. When flung about in the air the feathers rotate so as to mimic the sound and sight of a bird in flight. Imitations of this toy closely resemble Da Bird. Look for the one made by Go Cat.
When I see there seems to be a little tension between the cats, I know it’s because I have been neglecting this vital part of our routine. Just like going to the gym, make it a habit and stick with it, no excuses. You are establishing routine and cats thrive on routine. That’s no surprise, being the best alarm clocks never requiring recharging. I’ve noticed that when I do pre-supper play sessions, they eat so much better and I never have to refrigerate leftovers.
Sometimes we tend to think a cat toy has to be flashy or colorful, embellished with bells and whistles, to catch a cat’s attention. This is not always the case and the simplest of toys can be a real winner. For some cats, bottle caps and milk rings are the best things since catnip! But for quite some time I’ve been ignoring a toy called the Cat Dancer until I decided to buy it for the cats after reading some good reviews. The cats love it so much that it has become an essential tool to get them moving for our pre-suppertime play sessions. Another observation was that the toy piqued the interest of all the cats which would bring them all together in one location, even the cats who avoid each other! The ‘bully’ cat soon learns that the ‘prey’ or victim cat is not prey and is acting just like he does, i.e. hunting and stalking the same toy.
2. Create several little cat kingdoms in your home
The more cats you have the more space you have to provide for them. ‘Territory’ is our operative word here in the Chirpies household. We are lucky that we have a large backyard to accommodate a decent-sized catio and building it was one of the best things we could have done for our cats. We have definitely noticed a more confident and happy cat in George, our cat who was easily intimidated by the more dominant cats. But any space, no matter how tiny can accommodate smaller versions of these multiple kingdoms that they can each own, or timeshare throughout the day.
These “kingdoms” or micro territories could be a cat tree in one corner by the window, perhaps a smaller cat bar stool in the kitchen, maybe a few climbing shelves near the bookcase, a little getaway cat cave in the corner, a cat hammock on the landing or one under the coffee table.
Create vertical space for those quick escapes up the nearest ‘tree’ for your cat to view her world from a safe space. One of my favorites which I have in my bedroom and does not take up much space is the cat tree from PetFusion called the Ultimate Cat Climbing Tower & Activity Tree. This is ideal for our agile and high energy cat Baggy who is happiest in the highest spot as he claims ownership of yet another cat kingdom! If your cat likes to climb up vertical spaces, this is the tree for him.
Every bit of space in your home, vertical and horizontal, is important to your cats as they relate to their environment first and foremost, to feel a sense of security within their micro territories. When you have a multi-cat home your feline family displays almost the full spectrum of cat personalities; from the shy to the dominant, assertive, playful, docile, ground/bush dweller or high flyer. When all cats feel comfortable and confident in their environment, and each cat can own some space, the bully cat loses interest in picking on the lower-ranking cat. His environment enrichment needs are met so no need to pick on Timid Teddy. Besides, he cannot guard several kingdoms at the same time!
3. Interactive cat toys to prevent boredom in cats
When you don’t have the time, there are some great electronic interactive toys for all cats’ play styles. One of the kitties’ favorites is the Frolicat Flik, best enjoyed by the cat who is a master pouncer! Another is the PetSafe Laser Tail automatic laser cat toy (which cat doesn’t like chasing the red dot?) A word of caution though, I would always follow up this game with letting the cat catch something tactile. Biting and gnawing at a toy, whether it’s a catnip-filled kicker toy or toy bird, actually feels like prey. The red laser light, while great for getting them off the couch so to speak, never actually gets ‘caught’ and may make a cat feel a little cheated and frustrated. There’s a lot of weight to the saying “the cat that caught the canary” because for a cat, after a good hunt, feels very pleased and satisfied with himself. Indulge his instincts!
Texture and substrate are things to keep in mind when considering an interactive toy. Most cats cannot resist cardboard, I know mine can’t! Here’s another puzzle that’s perfect to keep your cat mentally stimulated and challenged for more than just a few minutes. This three-tiered cardboard puzzle has adjustable difficulty levels for the cat that needs a little bit more incentive and is easily bored.
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4. Know when your cat wants to play!
Take advantage of those zoomies sessions. All that pent-up energy seems to come out just before bedtime, not exactly the ideal time. But just whip out a toy for 5 minutes to let him ‘kill’ his prey and this should keep your high energy, bully cat from disturbing you or the rest of the cats during the night. Short play sessions before bedtime is a great way to train a cat to merge his sleep patterns with the humans in the house.
Tip: Put away toys when not in use
This is hard to stick to but it’s best to put toys away when not in use. Unmoving toys are of no interest to a cat and he just gets bored and ignores it. But if these toys emerge during play sessions only, that creates a sense of novelty and intrigue and the cat is a more willing participant in a game of fetch, pounce or jump. Favorites such as the fishing rod toys always get put away in our house. If left out they could damage the toy or worse, ingest parts of it which is a potentially dangerous situation.
5. Provide more litter boxes throughout the house
Follow the rule of 1+1. Again in the same way the bully cat cannot guard several kingdoms at the same time, he also cannot guard all the pathways leading to a litter box. See my post on Litter box rules cat owners should not ignore.
6. Provide puzzle feeders for mental stimulation for your cats
Puzzle feeders are great for encouraging hunting and foraging behavior. With these feeders, the cat is actually working for his food. It may take a while for him to get the hang of it but he soon learns that his paws can be used for other things besides powder puffing his housemates. A really fun and engaging feeder is called the Fish Bowl. This inexpensive, simple, yet clever design will have your kitty amused and intrigued while he tries to get his paws inside. A little tricky to get the treats but your high-energy cat is not about to give up.
Check out one of our popular posts on creating a unique and fun cat grass puzzle made from egg cartons and other upcycled materials you already have.
7. Clicker training!
I left the best for last! I love clicker training my cats and it’s amazing how willing cats are to learn. Years ago I bought the Karen Pryor clicker training for cats starter kit which includes a clicker and booklet on how to get started. Cats inherently please only themselves, so you have to find something that motivates them, um that’s easy….food and treats! Just find out what they absolutely cannot resist in the treats department and you have yourself some willing feline participants. It’s also no surprise that it’s the high energy cats like Baggy and his brother Ollie that respond extremely well to clicker training. Using this simple clicker, I have trained the younger cats to love their cat tree.
For a wonderful interactive clicker training guide, the Cat School training Kit provides a fun and interactive way to engage your most eager and energetic cats! Yes, this is also part of the actual Cat School program! 😀
Tired of counter cruising while you’re trying to cook? Clicker training your high energy cats on their very own clicker station in the kitchen will keep them engaged while learning a new skill like “sit” and “high five.”
I have also taught my cats to “sit” and stay off the counter using this clicker. For best results set up a ‘clicker station’ that is exclusively used for this purpose. My cats’ treat station is a set of shelving floating units in the kitchen and when I need to cook in peace without wanting the pitter-patter of paws across my counter, I get them to sit on this station instead and it works a charm!
So while Baggy, our high-energy cat still probably dreams of ruling the several cat kingdoms in our home, with all the activity we have planned for him, he just doesn’t have the time.
Do you have a high-energy or bully cat in your household? We have had some success with calming Baggy’s urge to dominate the 7 Cat Kingdoms with Jackson Galaxy’s flower essences blends created by a holistic veterinarian.
Which cat in your household has his eyes set on ruling the seven cat kingdoms?
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